So many of the women I talk to about business say the same thing: “I am just not very confident when it comes to sales & selling my products.”

And I hear ya! It can be one aspect of having our own little biz that puts us right out of our comfort zone. But here is the thing:

You have a business. You need to sell stuff. If you can’t sell stuff, you don’t have a business. Right?

So here are 10 tips to help you increase your confidence when it comes to selling and sales.

1. Value yourself

If you do not value what you (and your products) are worth, then how can you expect others to? If you do not go into sales situations with the confidence that what you offer has value then why would anyone want to buy it?

Try making a list of every bit of expertise that goes into your products, every feature that your product includes, every benefit that your product offers to others, every point of difference for your business, every bit of value that you offer to your customers… all of it. The bigger the list, the more reasons you have to be confident!

2. Know your target & your benefits

Get clear about who exactly you are selling to (your target market) and what it is exactly that you are selling them (the benefits of your product). It is much easier to sell something to someone who wants it.

For example if you are selling handmade toys you may be thinking that ‘any mom’ is your target. This is not the case, get really specific about which moms are actually likely to buy, and why. Maybe it is nostalgia for their old toys, maybe the fact that the toys are safer, maybe they believe in imaginative play, maybe they believe in supporting local. There are 4 groups right there who WANT what you are selling, go find them!

3. Demonstrate value

Your customers are always wondering, “What’s in it for me?” so be prepared to show the value of what you offer, or add value to what you offer so that it is easier to sell it.

For example if you design websites for little businesses, show them how much money + time + frustration you save them from doing it themselves. Show examples of what a bad website cost a business in the long term. Offer value added packages and show them how much they get for their money when they buy a package on a payment plan rather than piece services together bit by bit.

4. Consider your brand

Be sure that your products, packaging, pricing, description etc. all match your brand, and that your brand matches well with your target audience.

For example if you are a photographer wanting to sell higher priced packages, when
engaging with potential clients you should ensure that your packages & language match with that price point. For instance: photos vs. images, collections vs. packages, a Facebook album vs. a viewing gallery.

5. Find your passion

It is a lot easier to sell something if we ourselves believe in it 100%, and if we feel like we are sharing our passion vs. pushing a product on someone. So find that aspect of your biz that you can really get passionate about.

For example, you might sell natural skin products but if you are really passionate about
educating people on the health risks of common skin products, it will hardly feel like you are being a salesperson when you talk about what you believe in.

6. Sell something bigger than your product

If you have a goal of giving a percentage of your profits to a charity or to support something you believe in, it can be a great motivator to making those sales, and it can also feel a lot easier to sell your thing, knowing the good it will do.

For example you could choose a charity/event/cause that fits with your niche, your brand message, or your product, and then give a portion of each item you sell, or create a special item to sell for that cause, or have a day each week where you focus on a charity… Whatever it is, get passionate about it!

7. Build relationships

People buy from people they like, people they know. So build
relationships with your right people; get to know them and let them get to know you. Don’t view them as your customer list, view them as your community and nurture that

First, be you on social media & your website (don’t just hide behind your logo!) Engage
with people: let your fans get to know a piece of you and you make an effort to get to know them. You could also try these: get a list of past customers together and call them, see how they are doing; contact potential clients and invite them for a coffee or a Skype chat; hop on Facebook, find your favorite past clients and friend them. Don’t fire away with a sales pitch, just build your relationship.

8. Have some fun

Who says you have to sell your thing the same way your competitors are doing it? Try thinking outside of the box to come up with a sales tactic that is a bit unusual for your type of biz and have some fun with it. This can help generate buzz about your sale, and also give you something that feels easier to promote.

Perhaps you could come up with a limited edition item; have an exclusive offer for one
day or for a VIP group of customers; try a pay what you can day or a ‘buy one get one for a friend’ day.

9. Set a sales goal

Crunch your numbers (your monthly costs, income, and profit) and figure how much you need to sell each day to reach your targets. Then start each day with a task that will make you money.

For example if you have a goal of making $1200 in sales each week and you reserve Sundays for family then you would need to make $200 in sales each day from Monday to Saturday. Perhaps you could come up with a $50 item to focus on promoting for each of those days, and a new tactic to use for each day – write a blog post, share testimonials, get reviewers, etc. You would have a plan for your week and you would only need to sell 4 of each item of the day each day to reach your target.

10. Change your mindset

That whole ‘I’m not that confident’ thing? That is a mindset, an automatic response that you need to change. When you feel those thoughts creep on in, squash them. Remind yourself that you are confident about your business, that selling is indeed part of your business, and that people want to hear about what you offer. It is your job to sell. So fake it till you make it, but start selling. You won’t have a business if you don’t.

If you can’t sell stuff, you don’t have a business. Right? So here are 10 tips to help you increase your confidence when it comes to selling and sales.